ADDICTION INTRODUCTION

 

 

ROADS AWAY FROM PORN

by Salman Pasha

 

INTRODUCTION

“Addiction is the disease that makes you too

selfish to see the havoc you created or care

about the people whose lives you have

shattered.”

Anonymous

 

Porn is “Pleasuring On Regressed Nonsense,” said one porn addict and the other addict said that porn is “The Pursuit Of Pleasure in Pixels”. But whatever you think porn is, one thing is for sure. That Porn is a parasite. It steals your life from you, it feeds off your time and potential to grow and be what you truly can be. It gradually destroys your time, dignity, self-esteem and potential. It has a kind of negative hypnotic effect, that is, it grabs and then keeps your focus of attention locked until you wake up from the porn trance feeling empty, worthless, exhausted and miserable, your self-esteem destroyed.

 

Porn and masturbation are a deadly duo. They can ruin your physical, mental, and spiritual life. They have ruined marriages, careers and lives of hundreds and thousands of people who were not aware of how dangerous they can be, and if you are reading this book, probably, you might have already experienced some of their negative effects.

 

Feelings of boredom, insecurity, and loneliness or even just having the opportunity can all result in porn addiction. These feelings can easily start to become automatically anchored to and then associated with using porn. So, you might be using porn as a way of numbing or escaping certain feelings and situations or to take the edge off the stress and tensions in your life. But porn is a parasite, it never has and never will deliver what it promises, because the more you view it, the more you want to view it and the more extreme the pornography that you will seek out.

 

You might have made efforts to control it, you may go for days, weeks or even months without using porn and then almost without knowing it you are back into it again, you might have fooled yourself thinking that you are not really hooked, or that you will just view porn for few minutes but then you were entranced again by the porn and hours went past and you woke up from the porn trance feeling empty, worthless, exhausted and miserable, filled with self-disgust and your self-esteem destroyed.

 

So, to completely get rid of your porn addiction, what is wanted is the elimination of the need for porn and not suppression. Suppression of the porn cravings is not the eradication of this habit. You can never be free of that which is suppressed. The suppressed porn cravings will attack you again and again and will produce withdrawing symptoms, wet dreams, irritability and restlessness of mind. You know how this world is crazy about “everything sex”, everywhere there are porn triggers, everything is sexualized, you just cannot run away from this world where everything has been sexualized.

 

Hence, repression or suppression of the porn cravings will not help you much. If they are suppressed, they will again manifest with even stronger force when a suitable opportunity arises, when the will becomes weak, when your motivation wanes, when there is slackening in your desire to quit porn, when you become weak owing to an attack of disease, stress or anxiety. Do not try to run away from porn, if you do, it will then chase you terribly on every corner. All these cravings, the desire to watch porn is in the mind. If the mind is subdued, what can these external triggers and porn cravings do?

 

So, what is wanted is a judicious control of your mind. The mind should not be allowed to run riot in sensual grooves. It should not be allowed to throw us ruthlessly into the deep pit of porn and masturbation. And this book will give you more than 30 techniques to get control over your mind and your addiction.

 

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YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS THIS BOOK

 

 

ROADS AWAY FROM PORN

by Salman Pasha

 

YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS THIS BOOK

“A man who views the world the same at 50 as

he did at 20 has wasted 30 years of his life.”

Muhammad Ali

 

There’s an old saying in the teaching world: “Tell them what you’re going to tell them. Then tell them. And then tell them what you told them.” And so, as you move through this book, you’ll probably notice much repetition of thoughts and ideas, because we usually learn best through repetition.

 

There are few things in this book which are not scientifically proven yet and when you come across them, you will have two options to choose from.

• Try those things and prove their effectiveness for yourself.

• Or, wait until there is scientific proof for their effectiveness before you try them.

 

But be aware, if you go for the second option, you would have to wait for a few decades before the scientific world catches up with the lived experience of porn addicts. And it would be too late for you. Always remember that science will always lag behind the lived experience.

 

The case with every new phenomenon is that science lags behind the lived experience. Just take a look at History.

·         Doctors advertising cigarettes and prescribing them as a treatment for Asthma. Until smokers started getting diagnosed for cancer.

·         “Children’s Soothing Syrups” used to soothe those little brats which had morphine, chloroform, heroin, powdered opium, etc. Until science discovered the effects of those drugs.

·         Using mercury to cure pretty much anything and everything. Until people started noticing harmful effects on their lungs, kidneys, nervous, digestive and immune systems.

·         Using heroin to cure your cough until we got to know about the effect of it on our bodies and minds.

·         People using Lobotomy (making an incision to the frontal lobe) to treat mental illnesses, ranging from conditions as serious as schizophrenia to something as mild as depression or anxiety. Until they saw how bad an idea it was.

·         And girls using radioactive cosmetics, containing Radium until they started dying from Radioactive exposure.

 

The list can go on and on and on, but the point I am trying to make here is that science will always lag behind the lived experience. Because it has to, it's natural. You cannot reach any conclusion unless you have enough proof and evidence. If we had not noticed the effects of Tobacco, Radium, Mercury, Heroine, Morphine, etc., we would still be using them today as we used to do in the past. But people lived through those times, people went through the experience, the sufferings. Only and only after that science caught up with their experience and told them that what they were doing was not a good idea.

 

A similar thing is happening now, history is repeating itself again. Millions of people are watching porn on a regular basis, and millions are suffering from a range of symptoms. From social anxiety to Premature ejaculation.

 

The brave souls, however, those who don’t like waiting until science tells them that porn is bad. People who listen to their minds and bodies more than the so-called experts. People who don’t fear to face the truth, the people on noFap, PornFree, MuslimNofap, Semenretention subreddits, have come forward to tell the world again that – the case with every new phenomenon is that science lags behind the lived experience.

 

So, it is better to be safe than sorry. To quit porn now and reap the benefits, rather than wait for a few more decades when science will accept these people to be the pioneers in this field.

 

If you are reading this, it is clear that either you or your loved one is addicted to Porn. If it's you, you already know that porn is bad for you. And if it's your loved one, the chances are that he/she is on the denial mode and you are looking for ways to prove to him/her that porn is bad. Get him/her on to www.YourBrainOnPorn.com. It will definitely be an eye-opener.

 

If you are addicted, or your loved one, the only thing that matters most is

– “What are you going to do to get FREE? “.

Do you have enough knowledge about the ways in which to quit porn? If your answer is “No”, then this book is definitely for you. Read on.

 

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 to be continued . . .