How Much Masturbation

(Please First refer to the post on 21/08/2012)

Masturbation. Dr. Sayeed Ahmad D. I. Hom. (London)

  How Much Masturbation Does It Take To Cause Problems?

 First thing avoid.

Avoid Distraction by lowering your gaze.

 

There is a direct correlation between the amount of masturbation and the severity of the changes that masturbation causes to the human body. The more masturbation is engaged in, the more numerous and more severe will be the changes caused to the body A general guideline to various amounts of masturbation and the associated amounts of body change is presented next.

Masturbation one time per year

Very little if any change to the body

Masturbation once every six months

Very little change to the body

Masturbation once every three months

Causes a small number of minor changes to the body

Masturbation once a month

Causes a larger number of minor changes of slightly increased severity

Masturbation once a week

Causes moderate changes of moderate severity to the body

Masturbation once a day

Causes many changes of varying severity

Masturbation multiple times per day

Causes a multitude of severe and extremely severe changes to the body

 (These statistics are from internet  and does not have proof)

Underwear

Undergarments or underwear are clothes worn under other clothes, often next to the skin. They keep outer garments from being soiled by bodily secretions and discharges, shape the body, and provide support for parts of it.

Nocturnal Emission

(Please First refer to the post on 21/08/2012)

Masturbation. Dr. Sayeed Ahmad D. I. Hom. (London)

Nocturnal Emission

Nocturnal emission or Night emission may accompany by erotic dreams, where Person experience ejaculation of semen during sleep. It is also known as" wet dream" Or "Night Discharge", an orgasm during sleep. it is most common during teenage and early adult years.

The most common seems to be that the body was partly designed for nocturnal emissions because a man needs to ejaculate from time to time even when he is not sexually active. It basically suggest that a body can hold a maximum amount of semen and when this maximum amount is reached, it needs to get rid of it.

 

It is natural way or releasing sexual tension. The more a man ejaculates during "normal" sex, the less nocturnal emissions he will experience.         

                

  

Excessive of  Nocturnal Emission should be cured, it can cause serious harm to the body

Excessive
 * Nocturnal emission causes sexual, physical, mental weakness.
    knees pain, dizziness, insomnia.

 * Memory problems, poor vision/sight, decline in academic achievement

 * It may leads to decrease in sperm count

 * Inability to produce children

 * Inability to perform sexually

These views are taken from internet, Kindly verify.

Addiction

Addiction to Porn & Masturbation: 

Islamic Remedy

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Question and Answer Details Name of Questioner Omer Title Addiction to Porn & Masturbation: Islamic Remedy Question Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. I have recently become Muslim. Since I converted I have reformed my ways, for the most part. I think I am a good person except that I am addicted to pornography and masturbation. What is the Islamic remedy for this? Jazakum Allah khayran. Date 13/Sep/2003 Topic Love & Sex Answer Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. Dear brother in Islam, We welcome you to the Muslim Ummah. We also thank you for the great confidence you place in us, and we implore Allah Almighty to help us serve His cause and render our work for His Sake. In his response to your question, Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, states: “Since you have been addicted to an extremely pernicious habit that destroys your spiritual soul and thus leads to self-destruction, you must urgently summon your will power and take all the necessary steps in order to wean yourself of it immediately. In order to empower yourself to achieve this, you should seek counseling and therapy, preferably from those professionals in the field who are conscientious Muslims. If such Muslim professionals are not available, choose one from those who are ethically and morally conscious. It is important for you to wean yourself of these pernicious habits. The consequences of persisting in them are simply unthinkable; they would undoubtedly corrode your spiritual soul and cause your spiritual death. Sins by their very nature are addictive, for it is in the very nature of the carnal self to seek pleasure in sins. As Al-Busiri has rightly said, “The carnal self is a like a baby; if you neglect him, he will grow up clinging on to the breast-milk forever, but if you wean him off, he will be weaned off.” I suggest a few tips which you can use to empower yourself: 1. Visualize and meditate on the ugliness of this heinous sin and conjure up images of hell fire as painted in the Qur’an and the Sunnah as many times as possible until such time that whenever you are tempted to visit such websites or read such magazines, the scenes of hell fire will be playing in your mind. Thus, even as you have associated this addiction with pleasure, you will come to associate it with pure pain and suffering. 2. Convince yourself of the urgency of removing this malignant cancer from your life by taking all measures such as listing all the negative things about such habits, and listing the verses and traditions about the gravity of sins. Remember it is far more serious than cancer attacking your body, since your soul survives you even after your physical body has disintegrated in the earth. 3. Imagine how terrible a loss you will be facing were you to die while being addicted to this most heinous sin. 4. Seek strength from Allah by crying to Him for succor. But you can never seek the help of Allah unless you seek to establish connection with Him through regular Prayers, so never be slack in your Prayers. 5. Schedule your time in such a way that you are never left with any time to think of such matters. Imam Ash-Shafi`i said, “If you don’t occupy your mind with good works, your carnal self will make you busy in bad deeds!” 6. Surround yourself with spiritual and Islamic influences and virtually immerse yourself in them. 7. Always hang around with good Muslims who are busy doing good works; join a halaqah (study circle) where spiritual training is imparted together with the study of Islam. 8. Make your mind and tongue busy with dhikr (remembrance of Allah). Say the following words and others frequently: Subhan Allah; al-hamdu lillah; laa ilaha illa Allah; Allahu akbar; Wa laa hawla wala quwwata illa billah. Astaghfir Allaha al-azhim min kulli dhanbin wa atubu ilaihi. (Glory be to Allah; praise be to Allah; there is no god but Allah; Allah is Greatest. There is no power or strength except by the will of Allah. I ask forgiveness of Allah from all my sins and repent to Him.) 9. Once you have been weaned of these pernicious habits, you should seriously consider marriage; marriage is the protection against temptations. I pray that the Beneficent Lord of Mercy save us all from the evil inclinations of our souls and make us hate disbelief, transgressions and sins; and may He endear to our hearts faith and good works. Amen.” Excerpted, with slight modifications, from: www.muslims.ca You can also read: Can't Stop the Addiction of Pornography Watching Pornographic Movies How to Give up Masturbation? Advice to Overcome Porn Addiction

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Masturbation

Masturbation. Dr. Sayeed Ahmad D. I. Hom. (London)

Masturbation is the process of bringing about a voluntary excitement of the sexual centers following generally by the discharge of semen, through some method other than normal sexual intercourse. In other words, "Masturbation" means ejaculation of semen by hand. There are various devices resorted to for the purpose, but because of the hand to practise it, it is widely known as "Hand Practice". This habit is also known as "Self-Abuse", since it is done by one’s own self by his own hand.

There are exceptions, when masturbation is also done by some one else i. e., one engages one’s own wife for this act and rather prefers it even to normal coitus. This sort of device is found among those who are accustomed to hard friction and this habit is formed since childhood and therefore they cannot derive much thrill and pleasure from normal coitus. The other common device is to lie down on the abdomen and rubbing the penis against the pillow or the bed as if performing the sexual intercourse and to discharge semen with thrill and pleasure.

There is haradly any young man who does not masturbate at one time or the other. The self-abuse is the prime cause of various sexual disorders and it is one of the earliest abuses when a boy engages himself in this evil act. Masturbation has serious consequences since it drains the young men of his vital forces and in many case it causes impotency, if it is over-indulged. Therefore, parents are advised to keep a watch on their children against all possible factors which can tempt their children to masturbate.

Following are some of the causes which incites young men to undertake this evil practice :

1. The main cause is bad company, where children hear and discuss sexual topics and in the bad society they themselves engaged in masturbation collectively without any shame. This is the very first and wrong step which leads to many bad practices to play with the immature sexual organs at the very tender age. Since this evil act gives intense pleasure, they keep on doing quite regularly without knowing the adverse effects of the masturbation in the future to come. If this practice is over done, it ruins the matrimonial lives due to impotency.
2. Secondly, house servants also incite young boys to this vice by playing with their sexual organs. Thus, parents should keep an open eyes and they should not allow their children for longer hours to be with their domestic servants in seclusion. Furthermore, sending their boys to distant schools along with their young children, without any supervision, may also lead to similar consequences since servants can caress the children if they find lonely road or place. Further, young children should also not be carried on cycles in front of the servants or in a car beside the driver.
3. Not only domestic servants, but even young friends or relatives should be relied upon. Therefore, children should not be allowed to sleep on a common bed along with the relatives or friends as some of them may pollute the children or young boys.
4. It has also been found that in many instances, the young ones are taught the first sexual lesson by the maid-servants. Thus, boys should not be allowed to be with maid-servants in seclusion or to lie in the same bed.
5. The parents, in the best interest of the boy’s future, they should also take guard to avoid his boy to lying in the same bed with other young ladies who are separated from their husbands since it has also been noticed on several occasions that such ladies due to their ungratified sexual desire, they lure the boy to spoil him.
6. Furthermore, sleeping more than one children in the same bed should also be avoided, since they may handle one another’s male organ. Once they are habitual of this, they would like to masturbate in seclusion places like bathroom, latrine or in lonely places.
7. The parents should also take care not to indulge themselves in interecourse where the children are present since it is one of the prime cause of this evil as the children imitate their parents out of their curiosity.
8. Another cause which invites boy to masturbate is the uncleanliness of the genital organ, since collection of smegma in the pit of glans leads to sexual excitement in several cases. Therefore, daily cleanliness of the genital is needed.
9. The other cause of masturbation is rectal worms. The worms cause irritation to the anus and consequently it gives rise to erection of penis. In such circumstances, boy handles his penis which gives intense pleasure to masturbate and later it forms the habit of masturbation.
10. Over and above, following are also the causes to excite sexual organs to masturbate :
1. Chronic Constipation.
2. Excessive use of sour foods.
3. Excessive use of stimulating diets such as meat, eggs, tea, etc.
4. Seeing of sexual and love scenes in T. V., cinemas.
5. Reading of amorous literature, novels, etc.
6. Talking of sexual problems with young ladies in seclusion.

There is no definite age is fixed to commence this abuse since long before the attainment of puberty, boys have been found involved in this practice.

Once the habit of masturbation becomes the part and parcel of life, among young unmarried boy it may also resort to prostitution, which invites horrible venereal diseases.

Some of the after-effects of masturbation are :

1. The nervous system is affected the most.
2. Besides the heart, the digestive system, the urinary system as well as the other systems are adversely affected and consequently the whole body becomes the museum of diseases with profound weakness.
3. The eyes become sunken, the cheek bones protrude and there is a black rim round the eyes.
4. Continuous headache and backache.
5. Dizziness and loss of memory.
6. Palpitation of heart on lightest exertion.
7. Nervousness.
8. Unable to perform any heavy physical or mental work.
9. The person dislikes any company and activities and rather likes to sit in seclusion and suffers from weakness.
10. All the senses are impaired.
11. Vision becomes dim, the tongue begins to stammer and ears tend to become deaf etc.
12. Lastly T. B. or insanity or some other serious disease catch hold of the victim to lead his life to a close.
13. Impotency.

Therefore, young men are advised to consult a qualified and honest homoeopathic practitioner for his expert advice and effective treatment instead of wasting his money with quacks. Further, those young men who are or have been engaged in the regular habits of masturbation should not ignore the necessity to consult the qualified homoeopaths to avoid sexual embarrassment at the time of marriage.

HOMOEOPATHIC TREATMENT :

* Sexual appetite increased by every attempt to satisfy it until it drives him to masturbation and madness. ----- Anan.

* A remedy for taking away the habit of masturbation and removing its bad effects. Penis glans get flabby. Penis relaxed. ----- Calad.

* Weakness of the organ after masturbation and excesses. Even his young and beautiful wife excites no erections. ----- Agn-c.

* Desire for solitude in order to practice masturbation. ----- Bufo.

* Excitement of sexual desire for masturbation, with lascivious ideas, day and night. ----- Chin.

* Increase of sexual desire, lascivious ; exposes his person, with desire for masturbation. ----- Hyos.

* Masturbation and its consequences. ----- Nux-v.

* Great sexual excitement driving him to masturbation. ----- Orig.

* Unnatural increase of sexual desire for masturbation, with mental depression. Masturbation before the age of puberty and its effect. ----- Plat.

* A very marked increase of sexual desire, with frequent erections, especially at night, with desire for masturbation. Habit of masturbation in children and for bad effects thereof. ----- Staph.

* Irresistible inclination to masturbation even during sleep. ----- Thuj.

* Weakness due to masturbation. ----- Chin., Ph-ac.

* Bad effect of masturbation. ----- Staph.

* Constipation due to masturbation. ----- Lyc., Nux-v.

* Dullness of mind due to masturbation. ----- Staph.

* Irresistible tendency to masturbation. ----- Ust.

* Weakness of legs and impaired memory due to masturbation. ----- Dig.

* Weakness of eye sight due to masturbation. ----- Cina.

* Melancholy due to masturbation. ----- Aur.

NOTE :

1. Any information given in this Article is not intended to be taken as a replacement for medical advice. Any person with condition requiring medical attention should consult a well qualified classical homoeopath. In case of treatment, you may please contact the Author of this Article by e-mail for further details.
2. For detailed information on this subject, please study the Author’s book "Homoeopathic Management of Male Sexual Disorders", published by B. Jain Publishers (P) Ltd., New Delhi (India).

Copyright © Dr. Sayeed Ahmad 2004

Eid Mubarak

Eid Mubarak 

Arabic: عيد مبارك‎,  

Hindi: ईद मुबारक  ,

Persian/Urdu: عید مُبارک,  

Malayalam: ഈദ്‌ മുബാറക്‌,  

Bengali: ঈদ মুবারক 

A traditional Muslim greeting reserved for use on the festivals of Eid ul-Adha and Eid ul-Fitr. 

The phrase translates into English as "blessed festival", 

and can be paraphrased as "may you enjoy a blessed festival" 

(Eid refers to the occasion itself, and Mubarak means "Blessed")

Eid Mubarak wishes are very common and often accompanied by hugging after the Salat al Eid.

Premature Ejaculation

(Please First refer to the post on 21/08/2012)

Masturbation. Dr. Sayeed Ahmad D. I. Hom. (London)

Premature Ejaculation (P.E)                                

 
What is premature ejaculation?                                    

Premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs too early, usually before or shortly after penetration or before the female partner reaches her climax. This condition also called rapid ejaculation. It is the most common sexual dysfunction. PREMATURE EJACULATION is a frustrating problem that can reduce the enjoyment of sex and makes Couple unhappy and frustrated And in severe cases Premature Ejaculation can threaten or even ruin a marriage because it spoils the sex lives of both partners.

Premature ejaculation is only a problem if it happens all the time. It's important to remember that most men occasionally reach orgasm sooner than they’d like. For example, it is normal for a man to ejaculate quickly the first time he has sex, It is also normal if a man hasn’t ejaculated for a long time. Occasional loss of control doesn’t mean the man is suffering from premature ejaculation.

How common is Premature Ejaculation?

Over seventy percent males experience PREMATURE EJACULATION at some point in their life. This is a high percentage and makes premature ejaculation the most common sexual problem. 

What is the average time to ejaculate?

There's no strict timing for ejaculation Whenever a man reaches orgasm before he wants to, experts agree, it's Premature Ejaculation. Some studies have found that, For a normal couple the average time sex lasted was 7.8 minutes and For a man with PE the average time before ejaculation was 1.8 minutes, If you and your partner are happy with your two three minutes, you don't have to consider yourself as a premature ejaculator.

Causes of Premature Ejaculation.

There are several Causes and reasons why a man may ejaculate Quickly. The cause is most likely to be anxiety, psychological factors and others are :-

*   Expecting failure
*   Weak PC Muscle.
*   Stress & Depression
*   very sensitive penile skin.
*   Excessive OF Masturbation
*   Feelings of guilt, embarrassment or frustration
*   The masturbation habits you developed may have led to this. Typically    adolescents masturbate with the intention of reaching orgasm quickly, thus
premature ejaculation has been “grooved” into your system.

Depression and premature ejaculation?

A depressed and dejected man cannot do sex and much less enjoy it. It means that the enjoyment of sex lies in our thinking feeling and emotions. He become over conscious about His inability to hold out long and this fear itself causes to EJACULATE SOON.

Exercise To Cure Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.

Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.

Squeeze Technique

This is a variation of the Masters and Johnson Method. This is where the partner "pinches"
the tip or base of the man's penis before ejaculation. This decreases the amount of blood
flow to the penis, causing the man to lose his erection. Squeeze Technique to prevent
premature ejaculation

Condoms

Condoms can help decrease the amount of stimulation during intercourse.
Ribbed condoms are often the least sensitive. Of course, their greatest
importance is in preventing sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy.

When to see a Doctor?

When premature ejaculation happens so frequently that it interferes with your sexual pleasure, it becomes a medical problem requiring the care of a doctor.

Premature ejaculation affects not only you but also your partner and your sexual relationship. In an
episode of premature ejaculation, You might feel angry, ashamed, and frustrated, and turn
away from your partner. At the same time, your partner may be upset with the rapid emotional change.

Premature ejaculation should never be a problem again, Treatment For Premature Ejaculation (Quick Discharge) With Unani Medicine.

Our herbal Medicine Has NO SIDE EFFECTS, You will experience an instant resolution to your problem i.e. experience of 100% result and gives u a Permanent cure. Natural herbal remedies have been used successfully throughout time. We use the Right combination of herbs which produces a powerful sexual enhancer that has the capability to Delay Your ejaculation, it also boost your libido increase sexual desire, increases sexual energy, improves vitality, increases blood circulation to the genitals treats erectile dysfunction and it give u a Rock hard erection without any side effects.

Here Are Some of the Many More Benefits of our medicine
 
  • Increased Blood Flow to Your Penis.
  • Unleash and Stabilize Your Testosterone Levels.
  • Calms Your Nerves to Stop Anxiety and Stress.
  • Balances the Sex Hormones in Your Blood System.
  • Delays Your Ejaculation. (TREATS YOUR PREMATURE EJACULATION)
  • Shortens Your Recovery Time.                                                              
  • Increases Your Energy, Stamina, and Endurance.                                       
  • Calms Your Nerves to Stop Performance Anxiety.   
                                  

There is nothing more humiliating than premature ejaculation for a man. Imagine the ego bruising when ejaculation comes prior intercourse and the disappointment experienced by the unsatisfied partner. You don't have to live with premature ejaculation, treatments including Herbal medications, counseling and learning sexual techniques to delay ejaculation can improve sex for you and your partner. For many men, a combination of treatments works best. Consult a doctor if you ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish during most sexual encounters. Although you may feel you should be able to fix the problem on your own, But you may need treatment to help you achieve and sustain a satisfying sex life.

These views are taken from internet, Kindy verify. 

Caution - Exposed Satr

 

Keep in mind to cover the Satr area. It nullifies the salaah, and causes other problem.

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