ROADS AWAY FROM PORN
by Salman Pasha
WHY THIS BOOK?
“Having only one option is not an option”
Anonymous
You can quit porn, you can definitely quit porn, but quitting porn is not like uninstalling an app from your phone. You cannot quit porn by just deleting your porn collection and activating porn filters on your phone and PC. You know very well from your past experiences that once the time comes, you will deactivate all the filters and you will download the porn again. So, quitting porn requires techniques, which deal with your mind and body. And this book gives you just that. You will find more than 30 techniques to quit porn in this book.
When you have a fever and you know it, the best possible thing is to do something about it. But, if you sit down thinking and studying why you got the fever or how you could have avoided it or how it works, it will be just a waste of time. The fever will remain unaffected by your thinking or studying about it. Similarly, you are reading this book because you are addicted to porn. To give you details about what is porn, how you get addicted to it etc, will be just a waste of time too. There are hundreds of books and websites which already do that. So, this book is different, it directly delves into giving you the effects of porn addiction and the benefits of getting free and then it will give you more than 30 real techniques to deal with your addiction.
Quitting porn can be hard or easy, depending on how you go about it. If you hate porn, you are still too emotionally involved with it. Hate can be as intense as love. It is what it is, don’t love or hate it. Porn is neither good nor bad for those who are not yet addicted, who have not watched it as much as you have. Those who say "smoking doesn't kill" haven't been killed by smoking yet. Those who talk about "recreational drugs" have not recreated with them regularly enough. And "masturbation is healthy." says the doctor who has not masturbated enough to get addicted and feel the consequences.
Porn is neither good nor bad for you if you don't watch it. Masturbation is neither good nor bad for you if you don't do it. But if you do watch porn and do masturbate, then you already know how much havoc it creates in your physical, mental and spiritual life. So, don't listen to those who don't watch porn and/or masturbate as much as you do. Because they will give you the wrong idea about it.
There is an old joke about a man who goes to the doctor and says, "Doctor, wherever I touch, it hurts."
The doctor asks, "What do you mean?"
The man says, "When I touch my shoulder, it really hurts. When I touch my knee - OUCH! When I touch my forehead, it really, really hurts."
The doctor says, "I know what's wrong with you. You've injured your finger!"
On a similar note, you might be facing so many mental, emotional and physical problems and the root cause of all these problems might be your porn addiction. You never know until you heal your injured finger; it will hurt wherever you touch.
to be continued . . .
