Wa`alykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh.
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
Dear questioner, thank you so much for your concerns about your
religion and Allah’s teachings even in what concerns your sexual life
with your wife.
As regards your question, it is to be noted, first of all, that all
acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so
long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a
wife while she is still in her menstruation. Thus, it is permissible for
a husband and a wife to practice cunnilingus and fellatio. Following
we’d cite the opinions of some well-known Muslim scholars in this
regard:
The eminent Muslim scholar, Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi states:
“I was asked about oral sex in America and Europe when I began to
travel to these countries in the early 70s. We are not used to be asked
these questions in our Muslim countries. Those Western people are
accustomed to stripping naked during sexual intercourse. These are
communities of nakedness, and from the licentiousness of the woman that
she wears nothing to screen her body in her daily life.
So, they are in need of more excitements during copulation. However,
men in our Muslim societies see nothing in the Muslim woman that can
excite them on the basis of her wearing either Hijab (veil) or Niqab
(face cover). But concerning whether being in complete nakedness during
practicing copulation is lawful or not, the Prophet of Allah, peace and
blessings be upon him, is reported to have said, "Guard your private parts except from your wife or your slaves."
Muslim jurists are of the opinion that it is lawful for the husband
to perform cunnilingus on his wife, or a wife to perform the similar act
for her husband (fellatio) and there is no wrong in doing so. But if
sucking leads to releasing semen, then it is Makruh (blameworthy), but there is no decisive evidence (to forbid it).
These parts are not dirty like anus, but it is ordinarily disgusting
to man. But there is no decisive evidence to make it unlawful,
especially if the wife agrees with it or achieves orgasm by practicing
it. Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He, says: "And who guard their
modesty, save from their wives or the slaves, that I heir right hands
possess, for then they are not blameworthy, but Who so craveth beyond
that, such are transgressors.” (Al-Mu'minun: 5-7)”
In the light of this, scholars maintain that the husband is allowed
to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment except anal sex, for
that is strictly forbidden.
Dr. Ali Jum`ah, professor of the Principles of Islamic
Jurisprudence at Al-Azhar Univ., says further that licking, sucking and
kissing spouse's sexual organs are all allowed, as long as it gives a
person sexual gratification that will keep him away from Haram
(unlawful) or starring at opposite sex (marriageable). But every Muslim
must keep in mind that sexual intercourse is just a lust and passion
that must be satisfied in a lawful way; it's not to be perceived as
necessary as foods and drinks, as it's the case in the Western perverted
ideology.
Shedding more light on this, Dr. Sabri `Abdul Ra’ouf,
professor of Islamic Comparative Jurisprudence, at Al-Azhar Univ, says
that it's allowed for the married couple to enjoy each other as long as
what they do does not run counter to the teachings of Islam or violate
the public norms. He also gives support to the view of Sheikh
Al-Qaradawi that oral sex or kissing private parts of the spouse is
something viewed disgusting to Muslims, but if the aim is just kissing
(without having constant indulgence in it) it's not sinful to do that,
but people of high morality normally keep away from that, as not to give
in to imitating non-Muslims.”
In conclusion, it has become clear now that oral sex is not
prohibited, but it is not the normal choice for committed Muslims and
Muslimahs. That's, despite that oral sex is not Haram, it is completely
disgusting and does not conform to the pure taste and decency of a
Muslim personality.
Here, it should be noted that
one of the main objectives of Shari`ah is to safeguard the life of
people and keep them healthy. Based on this, if it is scientifically
proven that oral sex or such practices cause mouth cancer or form a
danger on the health of a person who practices it, then it becomes
totally prohibited.
You can also read:
Oral Sex with One’s Wife: Is Ghusl Obligatory?
Brother, if you are still in need of more information, don't
hesitate to contact us. Do keep in touch. May Allah guide us all to the
straight path!
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اسلام علیکم میa.o.a sir Meri marriages ko 3 months ho gay hai ma accept be kar rahi ho Mera husband during sex apna private parts per kiss karna ka kata or orl sex be .Kiya yeh theek hai ka nahi
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