Islamic Guide To
Sexual Relations
Mubammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari
HUMA PRESS
CONTENTS
FOREWORD
PREFACE
INTRODUCTION
1.
INTENTIONS AND SEXUAL RELATIONS
Sex is a Form of Charity ( sadaqa)
2.
SEX AS A RIGHT OF BOTH SPOUSES l
The Husband's Right to Sexual Relations
The Wife's Right to Sexual
Relations
3.
SEXUAL RELATIONS: HOW OFTEN?
4.
SELECTING A TIME FOR SEXUAL RELATIONS
Preferred Times
Disliked Times
Sex during Pregnancy and the
Period of Breastfeeding
Sexual Relations during
Menstruation (haydh) and Post-Natal Bleeding ( nifas)
5.
PREPARING FOR SEXUAL RELATIONS
Preparation of the Wife
Cleanliness and Personal
Hygiene
Adornment and Beautification
Feminine Behaviour
Preparation of the Husband
Cleanliness and Personal
Hygiene
Good Treatment and Seduction
6.
FOREPLAY
Importance of Foreplay
Kissing
Massaging and Caressing
Body
Contact
Other Contemporary Forms of
Foreplay
Using Sex-Aids and Toys
Bondage and Flogging
Showering with One's Spouse
Sexually Provocative Dancing
Watching Pornography
Cross-Dressing and Transvestism
Urolagnia
7.
ACTUAL PLAY
Privacy
Covering up the Qur'an
Reciting the Supplication
(du'a)
Avoiding Facing the Qibla
Talking During Sex
Sexual Positions
The Man-on-top Position
The Rear-entry Position
The Side-by-side Position
The Standing Position
The Sitting Position
The Woman-on-top Position
Fantasising
Orgasm and Sexual Climax
Du'a when Ejaculating
8.
OTHER "FORMS" OF SEX
Anal Sex
Oral Sex
Phone Sex with One's Spouse
9.
AFTER PLAY
Being Affectionate
Cleanliness and Purification
Urinating
Ritual Bath (ghusl)
Sleeping in a State of Major
Ritual Impurity Ganaba)
Successive Sessions of Sexual
Intercourse
Secrets of Sexual Relations
10.
SUMMARY OF RULINGS AND ETIQUETTES OF SEXUAL RELATIONS
Recommended Acts
Prohibited and Disliked Acts
11.
ETIQUETTES AND FIQH OF THE FIRST NIGHT OF MARRIAGE
Greeting with Salam and
Reciting the Du'a
Offering Prayers
Light-hearted Discussion
Sexual Relations
Evil Suspicions
12.
CONCLUSION
BIBLIOGRAPHY
INDEX
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Mufti
Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari is a traditionally trained scholar who studied in
different parts of the world. Born in Leicester, UK and raised under the
guidance of his illustrious father, Shaykh Mawlana Adam, he started learning
about Islam from a very young age and memorized the Qur'an at the age of nine.
He initially studied the Arabic Language and various other traditional Islamic
Sciences at Darul Uloom, Bury, UK, under many Shaykhs notably, Shaykh Muhammad
Yusuf Motala, and received authorizations ( ijazas) in various books
including the six major books of hadith.
Aftter
graduating from the Darul Uloom, he travelled to Karachi, Pakistan, where he
studied under one of the greatest living scholars, Justice (Rtd.) Mufti Muhammad
Taqi Usmani and others. Later, he travelled to Damascus, Syria, where he
increased in experience and knowledge by studying under the great Ulama there,
and received ijaza from Shaykh Abd al-Razzaq al-Halabi, Shaykh Dr. Abd
al-Latif Farfur al-Hasani and others.
His
other works include: The Issue of Shares, Simplified Rules of Zakat and Birth
Control & Abortion in Islam. He has also published Shaykh
Muhammad Zakariyya Kandhlawi's Wujub i'fa' al-lihya (The
obligation of growing a beard) and Shaykh Khalil Ahmad Saharanpuri's Mabahith
fi aqa'id Ahl al-Sunna (Discussions in the beliefs of the Ahl al-Sunna), both
with critical analysis and footnotes in Arabic.
He
is also widely known for his detailed and well-researched fiqh related
articles on Darul Iftaa (www.daruliftaa.com) and Sunnipath (www.sunnipath.com)
websites. He presently resides in Leicester, UK, where he is a teacher of
various traditional Islamic sciences at Jamiah Uloom al-Qur'an, and helps
people with their queries and problems at the Institute of Islamic
Jurisprudence (Darul Iftaa).
To Be Continued....
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